Volume II / Issue 10 / October 2, 2006
www.respectsacramento.org
October E-Newsletter
1. From the Editor

OCTOBER 11 is National Coming Out Day

Join us along with many members of our community at the Crest
Theater from 5:30 to 8 pm.

Once again our regular meeting date falls on an evening when many
of our board members are planning on attending a community event
-- National Coming Out Day on the second Wednesday of the month,
October 11. We will be attending the festivities at the Crest Theater
sponsored by the Sacramento chapter of Parents, Family and Friends,
of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG)
, the Sacramento Valley Vets, and the
Lambda Community Center and hosted by West Sacramento Mayor
Christopher Cabaldon. Food, drink,
a movie and fun for all. We hope
to see you there, too.
Contents
1. From the Editor
2. Our next meeting at the Crest
3. In the classroom, 58% is an "F"
4. Announcements
5. GSA Network News
Blurbs
Governor vetoes bill to
protect LGBT students

Sept. 29 SACRAMENTO (365gay.
com) In a move that infuriated
LGBT advocates, California
Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger
vetoed a bill aimed at curbing
bullying in California schools.

The Safe Place to Learn Act would
have strengthened existing state
law prohibiting anti-lesbian, gay,
bisexual and transgender (LGBT)
discrimination and harassment in
public schools.  

"Some California schools are
choosing to ignore the current law
prohibiting discrimination and
harassment of LGBT students and
to veto a bill that would help
enforce that law is shameful," said
Geoff Kors, Equality California
executive director.  

"The governor is ignoring the
needs of students who are teased
and bullied because they are or
are perceived to be LGBT. The
governor claims to have spent
most of his life fighting
discrimination and teaching
children about tolerance, yet he
has vetoed every bill he has seen
that would do just that."

Schwarzenegger in a statement
said existing law was sufficient,
something the bill's author,
Assemblymember Lloyd Levine (D-
Van Nuys) disputes.

"The facts are that LGBT students
are more likely than their peers to
use drugs or to be victimized by
violence, more than twice as likely
to seriously consider suicide, and
over three times more likely to
carry a weapon to school or stay
home because they feel unsafe,"
said Levine.

A survey conducted by the
California Safe Schools Coalition
found that students who are
harassed based on actual or
perceived sexual orientation or
gender identity are more than
three times as likely to report
missing at least one day of school
in the last 30 days due to feeling
unsafe; are twice as likely to
report depression and seriously
consider suicide; and are more
likely to have low grades, be
victims of violence or use illegal
substances.

Earlier this month Schwarzenegger
vetoed a school bill that would
have prohibited any negative
portrayal of gays in textbooks and
other instructional material. The
bill was an amended version of an
earlier one that would have
mandated the teaching of LGBT
history in state schools that
Schwarzenegger warned he would
veto.

Last year Schwarzenegger vetoed
legislation to allow same-sex
marriage in California.

WI school shooting suspect
target of homophobic
bullying?

Sept. 30 CAZENOVIA WISCONSIN
(365gay.com) A 15-year old
charged in the Friday shooting
death of his high school principal
was angry that the man and
others at the school had failed to
stop classmates from bullying him
court documents allege.

Principal John Klang, 49, was shot
in the head, leg, and torso and
later died in hospital.  Eric
Hainstock is charged as an adult
with murder.

According to court papers filed late
Friday by the prosecutor in Sauk
County Circuit Court Hainstock told
police after he was taken into
custody that students regularly
bullied him - calling him "fag" and
"faggot" and rubbed up against
him.  

The documents say that the
teenager told police he was so
frustrated that Klang and teachers
would do nothing to stop the
harassment he decided to arm
himself.
More...

Georgia court rules for
lesbian mom

Sept. 28 ATLANTA (365gay.com)
The Georgia Court of Appeals has
overturned a lower court ruling that
awarded custody of a child to its
father because the woman lived
with a same-sex partner.

Victoria Moses and Kelvin King
were never married, but had a
child together in 1994.

Moses and King split up in 2002
and a court awarded custody of
the child to Moses with King
ordered to pay child support.

Two years later, a judge found
King in contempt for being nearly
two years behind in child support
and incarcerated him.

The following day King sued to
change custody.

The court granted the change due
to Moses' same-sex relationship
and because she was cohabiting
with her partner. The court said
that it realized same-sex marriage
is not legal in Georgia but
believed a child should not be
placed in a home where people
lived outside of wedlock. The
ruling also warned King not to
have an opposite-sex partner
living with him.

Moses, with the help of Lambda
Legal, filed a motion for a new
trial and reaffirmed King's custody
but ordered a subsequent hearing
to let the child testify.

After the child testified that she
had no problem with her mother’s
partner being in the home, the
trial court issued another order,
reaffirming a finding of changed
conditions, but giving joint physical
custody, alternating weeks, and
removed restrictions against
Moses' partner spending the night.

Lambda Legal appealed to the
Georgia Court of Appeals to
reverse the finding of any changed
conditions and to grant primary
custody to Moses.

In its ruling Thursday the Court of
Appeals said that the original
ruling was overly restrictive and
irrational.

"This is really great news for our
client and gay and lesbian parents
in Georgia," said Jack Senterfitt,
Senior Staff Attorney in Lambda
Legal's Southern Regional Office
in Atlanta. "It means custody
arrangements can't be challenged
just because a parent is gay or
lesbian."

King's attorney has not indicated if
he will appeal to the Georgia
Supreme Court.

Gay history month angers
Philadelphia parents

Sept. 26 PHILADELPHIA (365gay.
com) October is LGBT History
month but noting it on the
Philadelphia school district's
calendar has irked some parents.
The district sends copies of the
calendar to the homes of students
and some parents say the
reference is promoting sex.

"Gay and Lesbian Month? That's
sexuality - that's a preference,"
Nicola Rucker, 41, a mother of two
students, ages 9 and 11, told the
Philadelphia News..

"In elementary school, most 8-
and 9-year-olds don't understand
that," she said. "Everybody raises
their kids differently. I don't want
my 9-year-old son learning about
this stuff unless he's old enough
to come to me and ask."

The calendar also angered Addie
Williams, the vice president of the
Philadelphia Home and School
Council.

"As a parent, I do understand why
they would want to include
everyone," Williams told the news.
"But... I personally would not want
to announce that or include that in
a public setting because I believe
in a man and a woman - a mother-
and-a-father household."

Cecilia Cummings, a
spokesperson for the district
defends History Month saying it is
no different than recognizing
months devoted to the history or
heritage of African-Americans,
Hispanics and Asians.

"The school district maintains and
upholds Policy 102, which is a
multiracial, multicultural gender-
education policy," she said.
"Basically, it's a policy intent on
fostering knowledge and respect
for people of all races, ethnic
groups, social classes, genders,
religions, disabilities and sexual
orientations."
More...
Respect board member featured in Folsom Telegraph article

Rainbow of hope

Folsom teen focusing his energy on helping gays

Sept. 12 FOLSOM (Folsomtelegraph.com) by Jamie Trump. Sticks and
stones never broke his bones, but words have scarred Lance Chih
forever.

The openly gay teenager is still trying to overcome harassment he
said he experienced at Folsom High School three years ago.

Instead of spending his time trying to get even, the 19-year-old has
focused his energy on helping others. He's now a leading advocate in
the gay community both on and off campus and is educating
teachers, school staff and students about laws regarding gay
students.

"I was the second known harassment of a gay student at Folsom
High School," Chih said. "I wanted it to stop with me. I am victim No.
2 and I don't want there to be a No. 3.

"If I can help one person it will be worth it."

Chih said he was a sophomore when the first attack occurred. He
was in the school bathroom when someone threw a glass bottle into
his stall and called him names for being gay.

As word got around campus, Chih said others harassed him. He
recalled one time when a student threw rocks at him and screamed
profanities in between classes.

Another time he said students asked him personal questions about
his love life.

"After the attacks happened, I was seriously depressed," he said.

He did find support in a campus counselor.

"I saw the school counselor and she said, 'Do you want to put all
your effort into killing yourself or use it to help other people?' I
thought about that and realized that what I was doing was not
helping anyone," Chih recalled.

The next school year, Chih started the Gay-Straight Alliance at Folsom
High School, a student-run club that provides a safe place for
students to meet, support each other and work to end homophobia.
There are 500 clubs in California alone.

He then branched outside of Folsom.

Chih got involved with what's now called the Sacramento Regional
GSA and helped plan a gay-friendly dance for high school students.

He joined Respect Sacramento, a grassroots organization also aimed
at providing a safe environment for gay students.
More...

October is LGBT History Month

Looking for information on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
(LGBT) history? Try some of these online resources:

Wikipedia - LGBT history:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_history
GLBTQ Encyclopedia: http://www.glbtq.com/
People with a History: http://www.fordham.edu/halsall/pwh/
San Francisco GLBT Historical Society: http://www.glbthistory.org/
New York City LGBT Center: http://www.gaycenter.org/
2. Our next meeting -- at the Crest, October 11

As mentioned above, join us with other members of the Sacramento
LGBT community at the Crest Theater on October 11 at 5:30 pm. We'll
have a table in the lobby for members and friends to come by and
chat. We hope you can stop by and celebrate with us. Our next
general meeting will be on November 8 at 6:30 pm.
3. In the classroom, a score of 58% is an "F"

From Boyce Hinman, Lambda Letters Project

Twelve LGBTI beneficial bills were sent to the Governor this year by
the state legislature. That is more LGBTI bills than in any year since
the Lambda Letters Project began tracking legislation 18 years ago.
The Governor signed 7 of the bills and vetoed 5 of them. That gives
him a score
of just 58% on LGBTI issues. That is the lowest score on
LGBTI issues he has had since the Lambda Letters Project has been
scoring him.

Here is the list of those bills showing which ones were signed by the
Governor.

AB 606 Requires school districts to establish and publicize a policy
that prohibits discrimination and harassment of LGBTI students.
Outcome: Vetoed by Governor.

AB 1056
Requires the State Board of Education to create a pilot
project integrating instruction on tolerance into existing English
language, and social science curriculum.
Outcome: Vetoed by Governor.

AB 1160
Establishes court rules that reduce the chance of
defendants using panic strategies as a way of evading conviction, or
to reduce their sentence, in trials for hate crimes against LGBTI
people.
Outcome: Signed by Governor.

AB 1207
Adds to the pledge contained in the Code of Fair Campaign
Practices the pledge that the candidate for elective office shall not
use gay or transgender-bashing in their political campaigns.
Outcome: Signed by Governor.

AB 1897
Allows the State Personnel Board to order the state to pay
a complainant's reasonable attorney's fees when the state engaged
in illegal employment discrimination.
Outcome: Vetoed by Governor.

AB 2051
Establishes a state funded program to serve domestic
abuse victims who are in same sex couples. Increases the
registration fee for domestic partners to $23 to pay for the new
program.
Outcome: Signed by Governor

AB 2386
Requires the Secretary of State to post on his website a list
of candidates for public office who have signed a voluntary pledge to
abide by a Code of Fair Campaign Practices during an election
campaign. See related bill (AB 1207) above. Also requires that the
pledge be printed in ballot pamphlets and that the pamphlets
mention that a list of candidates who took the pledge can be found
on the Secretary of State's website.
Outcome: Vetoed by Governor.

AB 2800
Bans sexual orientation and gender identity discrimination
in housing and housing-related areas.
Outcome: Signed by Governor.

AB 2920
Requires each area agency on aging to include the needs of
LGBT seniors in their needs assessment and area plans, and requires
the state to provide technical assistance to these agencies for the
training of all program staff, contractors, and volunteers regarding
the unique needs of LGBT seniors.
Outcome: Signed by Governor.

SB 1437
Prohibits instruction or school-sponsored activities that
reflect adversely upon persons because of their sexual orientation or
gender identity.
Outcome: Vetoed by the Governor.

SB 1441
Bans sexual orientation and gender identity discrimination
in programs operated or funded by the state.
Outcome: Signed by the Governor.

SB 1827
Allows, but does not require, registered domestic partners
to file joint California Income Tax returns.
Outcome: Signed by Governor.
4. Announcements

Sacramento International Gay and Lesbian Film Festival

Thursday, October 12 through Sunday, October 15
Thur & Fri @ 7pm | Sat @ 1pm, 4pm, & 7pm | Sun @ 1pm & 6pm

Please note the addition of a 4pm screening on Saturday. The
Programming Committee was able to secure a wonderful romantic
comedy before its official opening in theaters nationwide next year --
too late for inclusion in the printed program, but just in time for the
audiences. This will also be a great "freebie" for everyone who buys a
Festival Pass! And don't miss "Kings of Drag" about Sacramento's
own Tina Reynolds and friends' 2004 butch women's fashion show.
For more information, go to
www.siglff.org.

Book Sale

The Lavender Library is holding a book sale Sunday October 1 -- all
the books you can put in a grocery bag for only $5. Sale starts at 8
am
at The Mercantile, 1928 L Street. For more information, see
www.lavenderlibrary.org.

Women Take Back the Night

Sacramento celebrates its 27th Take Back the Night, an international
grassroots event that protests violence against women. The Rally
and March begin at 6:30 pm at the State Capitol with a resource fair,
live entertainment, a women's and men's march, and closing
ceremonies. More information at
www.womentakebackthenight.org.

Come out with Ally Action - San Francisco

ALLY ACTION, formerly GLSEN SF-EB/BANGLE, has been working to
make local schools safe for all students, staff and families - regardless
of sexual orientation and gender identity/expression - since 1984.

Please come help us celebrate our new name, National Coming Out
Day and LGBT History Month! Join us for wine, hors d'oeuvres and a
evening of community.

October 11, 2006
6:30 pm - 8:00 pm
GLBT Historical Society
657 Mission Street, Suite 300
San Francisco, CA 94105

Tickets start at $35 and are available online at
http://comeoutwithallyaction.mollyguard.com.

Space is limited, please RSVP by October 3, 2006. For more
information, contact Ally Action at 925-685-5480 or
info@allyaction.org.
5. GSA Network News

Re-Register your GSA today - get new resources & keep informed!

Before you plan any events for your GSA, remember to register or
re-register your group with the GSA Network. Do it NOW to make sure
you receive our student resource sheets, FREE posters, other
resources, and notifications of future GSA Network or LGBT-related
events. (Mailings will go out only to California GSAs in middle and high
schools.) Register online at
http://www.gsanetwork.org/register/index.html

If you have any questions or concerns, contact:
Tanya Mayo, Program Director
tanya@gsanetwork.org
415-552-4229

Apply for GSA Network Youth Council! It's Cool!

GSA Network is accepting applications for new Youth Council members.

Go to the website and apply:
www.gsanetwork.org/about/ycapp.html
 
That's enough for now. Did I leave anything out? Please drop me a
line. Do you have an announcement or item that you'd like to
include in our newsletter? Would you like to write an opinion piece
about something in the LGBT education area? Tell us about what's
going on in your GSA! Send complaints, comments, or submissions
to
admin@respectsacramento.org and I will be happy to place it in
our newsletter, which is composed at the end of the current month
and sent out in the first week of the subsequent month. Make this
your newsletter by contributing to it!

See you at our next meeting
with the community on October 11 at
the Crest Theater at 5:30 pm.

Jerry O'Connor
Respect Sacramento Board Member

Respect Sacramento
PO Box 191678
Sacramento CA 95819
(916) 733-2135
info@respectsacramento.org
www.respectsacramento.org
Quote Unquote

"I am making the same
request as Matthew:
Register and vote, please.
It's your right, your duty,
and your future."

- Judy Shepard, mother of
Matthew Shepard, writing in
The Advocate

"People on our side of the
conversation, who have
been silent for a long time,
are tired of being silent."

- Harry Knox, director of the
religion and faith program at
the Human Rights Campaign,
as quoted in
The New York
Times/Associated Press